Hi Gina,
I'm sorry that you have to go through this. Did he say why?
I truly now how hard this is, I was married the first time
for 11 years, and it crushed me when we split up, he was truly
the love of my life.
I know at a time like this it doesn't help to say that you
will get through this and time will help you to heal, but
it truly does, when I was going through my divorce I never
thought that I would quit hurting but I did. What made it the
hardest was seeing and talking to him, when I got to the point
that I didn't see or talk to him for a while, it did start
getting easier for me.
We had two children together and that made it so much harder
for me and the children, but we survived and did have a decent
life together.
This may just be something that he is going through and needs
some time to get his thoughts together. My ex went back and forth
and to this day he will tell you it was the worst mistake
he ever made.
Maybe the two of you just need a little time apart. I hope
that you and him will be able to work this out, but if
for some reason you can't you can still have a happy and
joyful life, you take care of yourself and do what is best for
you.
Let me know how you are doing.
Becky
