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for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 10

I went in my depression 4 yrs. ago and I also was the sole caregiver for my mother. My husband went through all of this with me and was a great help with my mother. She passed away 2 yrs. ago and this is when my agoraphobia got total control over me. I applied for disability nearly 2 yrs. ago and I was turned down twice and now I have a attorney and I am now waiting on a hearing.I sometimes feel like he resents the fact that I can no longer work and he says things about my illness more now.He thinks I can just snap out of it and go get a job.I can't even leave the house now. I could on but I won't.There is so much tension that I now get panicky when it is time for him to come home. This a horrible way to live.Sometimes I feel I would be better off by myself.

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 10

oh yeah i forgot to mention that shae has been to the doctors with me when this started and i have made her read things but it didn't help her at all anymore there is no compassion

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 10

my wife and i only been married for a year and we have problems becasuse we rushed our marriage becasue i was supposed to go to iraq and i still might be leaving for iraq sooner or later but that doesn't even bother me. anyway when i get horrible panic and i think i am dying i use her as a safe person, but she just gats mad anymore and yells and tells me that she can't handel it anymore and blames me becasue the anxiety has affect her life a little, all i want to do is get a divorce now i can't stand it. yesterday i had a bad panic attack one of the worse and it lasted hours and i was convienced i was going to die and i was so scared, all she did was yell and she said that she would just drop me off at the hopitial and leave me there!!!! screw her!

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 387

I have been married for 14 years now and my husband is a wonderful man. We have our days, like all couples, but in all, he is a wonderful man. Sometimes I feel like I don't deserve him. Alas, I also feel lonely and completely alone sometimes. Sometimes I'll start crying and he'll say, what's the matter with you and I tell him I'm lonely and he looks at me like I'm nuts. Then he rolls his eyes and gives me a hug and always tells me that I'm not. But, although we are very close, I do feel lonely sometimes. Maybe that's something I need to work on. Anyways, I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone with feeling that way.

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 41

i dont think anyone understands what we are going through at this horrible time unless they have had what we are going through. My husband tried to understand at the start, but after i went to anxiety managment classes he thought i was cured for life, so now he keeps saying to me that "ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD,ITS YOU THAT DOING IT TO YOURSELF". In a way he is right, but when your suffering like we do, it doesn't help to have especially your husband say that as we feel useless and therefore, makes us feel worse. Maybe they should read some of these posts that we have here to let them see what we are going through.ALL WE NEED IS SOME SUPPORT. Thoughts and Prayers to you all Ellie

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 243

I am just so exhausted...do you ever feel like just giving up because I feel like I have no energy left in me....and feel like I have nothing to give...and although I am married I feel so alone...and lonely...is that possible???

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 387

It could be from the meds. It's hard to say. I know when I was taking Paxil, I woke up every single morning and felt like throwing up. I took it for seven years and it didn't go away until I stopped taking it. Don't worry about coming back to complain about things! We'll be here for you! ;)

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 243

Thank you Vickers....I will do my best:-) And will be back to complain again:-) I went to the doctor this morning and I guess I have some sort of epigastric troubles -- acid in my body...could this be due to the medications? I do feel nausea and weak sometimes..am not sure...

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 387

Don't worry sotired! Give it time. Maybe he'll come around at some point. In the meantime, just do what you have to to take care of yourself and work on the program. Do it for yourself - that's what really matters right now. Hang in there! We're here for you!

for 19 år siden 0 +0 / -0 243

My husband wasn't too interested in the information I gave him and didn't seem responsive...for now, I am going to let it go...I know it may not be the best thing to do, but I just don't have the energy anymore...

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