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Rachel,
Great advice to Steph80, good point! In life there are certain tasks that individuals just can't do, or simply don't like to do. That doesn't mean that we fail as parents/people.
Have a great day!
Angela
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The Panic Center Support Team
Thanks for your support Rachel. I just felt so bad. My husband is also very supportive (Thankk God). He doesn't mind dealing with it but I just get so panicked that I have to leave the situation to calm down. I wish I could just get over this fear and be done with it. It's so frusterating. I would love to have another child but I'm afraid with my panick I won't be able to handle both. Especially if they both become sick at the same time. Ugh! Sorry fpr rambling, I guess I just needed to vent.
I don't handle medical things well with my children. Once, when my daughter had to have blood taken from her arm. She was about 2 years old at the time. I had to hold her. They could not get a vein. She sat there just letting them poke her, however, after a couple of minutes, I said they had to stop because I was going to faint. I was able to lay down before I actually fainted but it was not fun.
My husband is very supportive and I have told him that he will have to help me with some of these things. He's ok with that. We have two kids.
If your husband is supportive and doesn't mind being the person in charge of illnesses, then I personally wouldn't decide whether or not to have another child based only on this situation. Of course, it is up to you guys.
I don't have a problem with cleaning up illnesses so I do that. But when it comes to certain medical situations, my husband takes care of that for me. As a matter of fact, I just told him that the next time our son goes in for a filling (he has one more, already did 2) that he will have to do it because I almost fainted last time.
I feel like the worst mother in the world. I have a 3 year old daughter and my husband and I had just started thinking about having another when my daughter got her first stomache flu. Well needless to say I was a complete mess. I was so anxious I couldn't help her so my husband had to do everything. I feel horrible and now I do not want another child just because what if have two kids being sick and my husband isn't home. Does anyone else have kids and have the same fear. Vomiting is my worst fear and i can't even be around anyone else who is doing it. I am getting anxious just typing it. Please tell me if anyone else has been through this.
Thanks for any thoughts or advice.
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