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kayelle
perhaps you have to work on your husband sexually. do his favourite things, experiment a little. tell him he's hot...whatever. this site has some proper decorum so i can't say too much, but i'm writing from my own masculine point of view. men do look at relationships and sex in a much different manner than women do.
bob
kayelle
you will be unpregnant some day, so your husband will be attracted to you. perhaps you could focus more on looking for good things to say and do for your husband and daughter.
its a very difficult thing also to diversify your life in your condition and with a young child, but perhaps you can look beyond your family for something that interests or captivates you. i walk around with a digital camera and take pictures of everything, my neighbours included...if your bring a kid you attract lots of attention. you could work on a photo family photo album.
Also, keep a journal, write poetry, write to and read this site etc.
I have read a few things about cognitive behaviour therapy and i think that has helped me focus on whats important in my life. you know your life will change, as you bring another child into the world. Hang in there.
bob
Kayelle,
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Hi, I'm new here. I'm desperate to find some help and came upon
this website. I'm due to have my second baby at the end of next
month. I have a history of depression but haven't been treated for
it for awhile--went off antidepressants (which never really helped
much) before I got pregnant the first time in early 2003.
I'm feeling like a horrible, unworthy human being. I have a
wonderful daughter and my husband says he loves me--but we've
been drifting further and further apart. He has no interest in me
physically and while he's always said that it's because we are not
getting along, he finally admitted last night that he is not
attracted to me right now (not his exact words, but it was
something like--"you're less sexy when you're pregnant." It just
destroyed me.
I can't seem to snap out of this. I keep crying and crying though
I'm trying to hide this from my daughter. In the meantime, I'm
also losing my patience with her (toddler tantrums, etc.) My
husband is just sick of me being this way; I don't know how much
longer he can take it. I feel like such an ugly, fat, idiotic loser. I
want to feel better, and I want to be there for my husband and
daughter (and new child). I've been trying to reach a therapist (my
former one plus a new referral) all day and won't be able to get in
until next week. Don't know what to do in the meantime. My
husband is tired of my negativity and sadness. I need some
advice or input or reassurance or something!
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