I am so sorry to hear this. Prayers to you and your family. Times like these really put pressure on the whole anxiety thing. I actaully have no anxiety normally but I have episodes when stressful things happen to me. I am getting thru a miscarriage right now, so my anxiety is high. Just keep reminding yourself that these feelings are a normal response to shock and grief. Take care.
Lauren
Bruce had liver cancerthat had spread up in the esophogus and throat, lungs and lymph system. Doc said he probably had it 2 or 3 years without knowing it til the very end. It was the difficulty swollowing that sent him to the doctor and he didnt want to go then! Men are stubborn. He was very sweet and we will miss him.
I'm so sorry!! It is so awful to lose a loved one - especially when they are so young! My prayers are with you.
Hang in there. I'm certain it's the anxiety and the grief making you so sick. Give it time. You'll be ok. Don't rush it though. Mourning takes time and is a very important process to letting go.
I'm so sorry. I watched my husband's uncle die of cancer at 49 in three months. It had a big part of the anxiety I experience today. My advice is to deal and work through this as best as you can, seek professional help if necessary. For anxiety stricken person events like these can really throw a wrench in things. This was my experience anyways. My thoughts are with you in this time. You will get through this when you actively take steps to get over it. Sorry for sounding so preachy but this same event did a real number on me for many years, but everyone is different. What kind of cancer did he have?
yes its normal! my mom was in a coma twice and all i did was throw up! i couldnt eat or sleep! everyone takes death different but it scares the heck out of me. i have only been to one funeral in my life and one of the hardest days of my life. i am sorry for your loss. gina
My mom's 2 year boyfriend who was 46 died last week from cancer. He only lived 2 weeks after he found out. He went down hill fast and looked worse everyday. Watching this and talking about it freaked me out and made me sick! I got tight in the neck and started getting a real weird feeling in my head and felt off balance. His funeral was last Tues and I still feel weird. Does anyone else take watching a love oned suffer/dying in this way? When my dad died 3 years ago I threw up for 3 days and was dizzy/sick also. Is this normal for us? Thank you all!
