Debbie,
I read your story about the doctor visit and your question about the paramedics. I've had really bad experienced with doctors myself. I live in NC and it seems like a bunch of small town doctors with no experience. They never want to treat you or see you, then when they do, they charge you a butt load to give you a pill. For starters, I have never seen anyone be "fixed" from a pill, you need to call around to specialists (therapists, psychiatrists) in your area and see which will take your insurance to get you some long term treatment and help. You can contact the Anxiety Disorders Association of America and the Association for Advancement of Behavior to get a list of specialists in your area. Once you have a list, call three or four of the therapists to ask a few questions before making your first appointment. Tell whoever answers the phone (or voice mail) that you are a potential client looking for a therapist, and you want to ask the therapist a few questions. Do not try and disguise what you are doing-there's no need for that! You will be paying them for a service, and are entitled to get the information you need to make a good choice as a consumer. A therapist who is too busy to talk to you for at least a few minutes on the telephone, for free, is probably too busy to be your therapist.....Questions to ask while you talk to the therapist...1. What kind of problems do you treat? 2. What kind of treatment do you offer? 3. Does it include cognitive behavioral therapy (or whatever threatment method you seek)? 4. What is your therapy style like (are you active in discussing things with me, or do you mostly listen?) 5. How many people have you treated with my problem? 6. Do you offer medication if needed? 7. How long is a typical course of treatment? 8. Do you accept insurance? 9. What does it cost? 10. How soon could I have an appointment once I make up my mind? 11. How long have you been treating these problems? 12. What is your professional background? 13. Are you licensed? 14. Where did you get your degree? When you are done calling all the therapists you are interested in, pick from your list the one you feel best about and go from there. I wish you the best of luck :) CANDY