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I said a prayer for you hon, my heart goes out to you. I have been anxious for days as a close friend of mine died from cancer suddenly.
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I am happy to hear that Holly is doing better... I am not a mother, but I can imagine how difficult it can be, as my father also drinks and sometimes will drive and I get so worried. My husband has done this as well. Have faith and hope -- everything will be fine...Sending you hugs and prayers... Take care of yourself, B
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Thank you Vickers and Gina, your advice and words helped. I do worry so much, its almost like part of my personality which is not what I want. I think Holly being in a coma and my brothers intense pain and grief have heightned my anxieties and fears again, you are both right my husband loves my son very much and would never put him in harms way, I am going to try to go I know I would feel more secure if I were there, I have just had this bad feeling about that day I cannot seem to shake. The good news is they took Holly off the respirator and she is breathing on her own, she is on coumdin and heprin, two very powerful blood thinners, apparently the problem is not completly solved, but it looks more encouraging, it brings up memories of my Mother dying similar to that 5 years ago, painful for my family. I would love to go out the Fourth of JUly and have a good safe time, I usually go out towards evening for some reason evening is better for me than during the day, I feel more at ease. I am going to give this to God and just pray for things to get easier and better, I worry too much about my son I just cannot help myself, my husband promised just to drink a few beers and none when he has to drive, so I will try to think positive and hope for the best, I hope I can go they want me too. Thanks again for caring. God bless, Debbie.
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debbie,i am sorry you are having a rough time.please try your best to think positive!remember your husbands loves your son and wouldnt put in harms way.my husband drinks and drives too.i hate it i always drive when i am with him.debbie i will keep praying for you! hugs!! gina
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Wow Debbie - you sure have a lot on your plate today! I am so glad that Holly is coming out of her coma though!! That is fabulous news!!! Please remember there is nothing you can do to make her well. It is up to her, the doctors and God. I know how hard it is to let something go when you so badly want to make it right, but sometimes we have to just say, Lord, I am laying this at your feet because I know You will make the right decision. But you have to accept whatever decision that is. It sounds to me like she has a very good chance of being ok. Put it on God's doorstep and trust his decision. As far as your husband and your son go..... I really know how you feel about that one! It's so hard to be a mom!!! I know you are really worried about them going out, but there is a very, very small chance that something could happen to them. I don't think your husband would put your son in harms way intentionally. There is always a chance that something can happen at any time in any situation. It doesn't mean it will happen though. If you can leave the house, go with them if that will make you feel better about it. If you force them to stay home, you will only fuel the fires. And you will be full of guilt and depression towards yourself for not being strong enough to let them go. I'm not saying that you're not strong enough. I just know from my own personal experience that the self talk would tell you so. That's how my self talk goes anyway. One thing I always tell myself is this. You've got to take your chances and live, otherwise, what's the point? Know that they will be ok. You will be ok. I promise!! Take something for your stomach. Pepto Bismol or Tums or something. Sounds like you've got a whopper of a belly ache there! I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time!!
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I am so worried and upset, I have been vomiting for days! Even taking an extra Klonopin during the day, something I do NOT like to do just to stop the shaking and terror. My brothers fiance is still in the hospital, she is slowly coming out of her coma, which is good news, but its going to be a long painful slow recovery, I talk to my brother every night and he is so depressed and drinking heavily, I pray she will live and make it and my brother. Also mu husband has to work double shifts this weekend which means little or no sleep and he still plans to take my son to a fourth of July celebration, he will have hardly any sleep and he will be drinking and I fear for my sons safety, I have begged him just to stay home and be safe, and he accuses me of trying to ruin his and my sons holiday, I think his lack of sleep and some beers are a legitimate concern! I am a wreck with vomiting and panic. I dropped off my prescription for Paxil today, I feel so angry my husbands forcing me to take it again, I pray he will not have an accident of the Fourth of July and hurt my son, I hate holidays because of my husbands shift-work and drinking, he is putting our son in danger and I am so angry and anxiety-ridden. PLease pray for our safety {my sons} and Holly my brothers fiance, I cannot believe my husband is putting this stress on us when I am so very worried about Holly, the nerves are eating my stomach up, I even vomited blood! I am sorry to vent, I just hope and pray noone dies this holiday, I HATE these feelings, I am even having chest pains and pains down my arm which does not normally happen. I hope everyone has a safe good Fourth, prayers would help. Thanks for listening, am I overeacting to my husband drinking and driving with out sleep with my son, I do not think so, I just pray it rains and they stay home safe, he said he would not drink much but I know many people die on the road on holiday weekends, boy am I a worried mess or what? Thanks guys, God bless, Debbie.

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