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Lauren, What I am most interested to know is, What kinds of thoughts are running through your head on Monday nights? I would venture to bet that your thoughts are creating your anxiety. Maybe you could write them down, and analyze them for how rational they are, or for each thought, ask yourself, So what if.... happened? eg. What if I have a panic attack when I'm watching the kids... then, So what if I have a panic attack then? And you can answer your own question... eg. If I have a panic attack, the kids might notice. And you can continue asking yourself, so what if? This can help you get at the root of what it is you are really afraid of. I have done this in the past and it helped me identify the 2 fears that are at the root of all my anxiety and worry. Hope this helps...!
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Hang in there Lauren! You will be fine...I am the same way...when I have to go to work or classes I cannot sleep...sometimes, I am afraid to sleep because sometimes I have these really negative thoughts which I can't seem to control, and therefore I get so scared...and this leads to anxiety and panic attacks...these are my fears for sleeping...and the Clonazepam doesn't help me to sleep...and the last few days I have been up until 2-2:30 am...and in the morning so exhausted.... But we all have our good days and bad days... Get some rest Lauren...you need to take it easy as well:-) Take care, B
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Well, last night was a bit better. I had a hard time falling asleep but atleast I did and was able to sleep thru the night. The kids I watch are 11 months and 4 years. They can be a handful but I only have them 3 days a week. I have them today and am off tommorow. I need something to do though since my husband is in school every night. I tried to nap yesterday but couldn't. I started to get upset when couldn't fall asleep but luckily I ended up falling asleep. Other then the insomnia I have been feeling pretty good. Thank you for all the sleep tips. I do turn my clock around! It does help me. Thanks for the support too. I hate not being able to sleep. It is so frustrating to me. Its such a natural process and seems like I hsould be able to do it. Guess not always. Thanks again guys.
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lauren,how are you feeling?i am sorry you having problems sleeping.how is your pregnacy going?i am so..excited for you.i used to have problems sleeping because i was afraid i might die in my sleep.so then i started sleeping on the couch with the tv on.now i try my hardest to sleep in my bed with my husband.sometimes i wake up go in the living room and watch tv until i catch myself falling back to sleep then go back to bed.lauren please reply on how you are feeling. gina
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Lauren, That is a lot of responsibility for a pregnant woman. Children are wonderful blessings. But they are also noisy, chaotic, 'wild' said with a smile, and the more you have the more directions you are pulled. You very well might be the greatest mulitasker that every existed (here comes the but) however, children aren't necessarily conducive to a stress free and calm environment. I taught preschool for two years and am the lucky mommy of an extremely bright and loving three year old daughter. I can only tell you from my experience that teaching the children took my mind off of my anxiety but stressed me out. I didn't realize it until I stopped. I was stretching myself so thin that I couldn't sleep at night, I was always on edge, and I had anxiety. I had a doctor tell me the only reason why I slept the other nights was because I was physically exhausted and couldn't have stayed up if I tried. Perhaps, there is something you can change about your situation. I don't know if these are your children from a previous marriage or if you are babysitting. I don't know if you need the money as desperately as I did. I don't know if the children are older and actually assist you. I am just telling you what it was with me. Take a look at it and see what you can change. That's what I did and it worked. I tried to respond back to you last night. I'm sorry I didn't catch you before you signed off. Sometimes the worst feeling of being up late at night and unable to sleep, is the utter loneliness that we feel. Do you go to sleep with the television or music? Some people say that this is awful. But I have coped with my anxiety by having the television on. I put on a sleep timer and am out by the time it goes off. Understandingly, California
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Hey Lauren! I'm sorry you didn't get any sleep again last night! I've been having the same problem the last four or five weeks now also. It always seems to be the worst on Sunday night - I think it's because I have to go back to work Monday. I found some info the net last week about insomnia and I copied it over to a post here. If you look under the "search messages" and type in "tips for sleeping" you should be able to find it. Another couple of things that have been helping me is chamomile tea at night. Being pregnant, you might want to call your doctor first - just to be safe. Two other things that have seemed to help me that I found on an insomnia support group online is to turn your clock around so you can't see what time it is throughout the night and to concentrate on the lights and patterns that you see when you close your eyes - when you start letting the thoughts in, concentrate on the patterns harder. I know the clock thing has really helped me though. When I can't get to sleep, I tend to look at the clock and think, ok, if I go to sleep now, I will have had 7 hours of sleep, and then a couple hours later of obsessing about not sleeping, I look at the clock and think, ok, 5 hours of sleep, and so on and so on and so on throughout the night until I'm all worked up in a frenzy. Turn that thing around! Surprisingly, it helps. I don't think I got a whole lot of sleep last night either. I kept waking up throughout the night. I don't feel tired this morning and I do remember one dream, so I must've gotten some sleep. But, because I spent so much time tossing and turning, it doesn't feel like I did. Another thing that has helped me get to sleep is to remind myself that it will be ok. You may be seriously tired the next day, but you're not going to die and you're not going insane. Also, being more tired, you will sleep better the next night. Hang in there! I know it's frustrating and I know it makes you feel stupid and weak (that's how it makes me feel), but you will be ok!
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Well, I babysit two kids on Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday. And onday nights, I never seem to get any sleep!!! I do fine Tuesday and Thursday nights. Its like the night before I go back for the week that bothers me. I have off Saturday Sunday and Monday. I don't take any meds because I am pregnant. I get worried when I am unable to sleep because I have heard that insomnia is a sign of depression. I really don't want to have to be on meds but when I am depressed, I can't eat or sleep. I didn't ge alot of sleep last night. But I am not anxious about the kids arriving. Its so weird. I stress so much the night before but end up feeling fine. Thanks for listening.
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At some point in the last ten years I have done this too. I went to a seminar for school a month ago. The woman was all about free will and control of our thoughts. She told us that if you think that Monday's are awful days for anxiety they will continue to be. She said you almost have to trick yourself into feeling better. I took if with a grain of salt and thought, "what the heck." Right? Because I am new to this site I have a few questions for you. What goes on Mondays that doesn't the rest of the week days? Are you alone? Are you not alone? Are you working when you normally aren't? Are you tired because of Sunday? Do you take medication? Do you sleep well Sunday night? Sorry if these questions have been answered in previous post. Sincerely, California
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Well, I am up. Can't sleep at all. I am soo frustrated. I really am. I need to sleep. I hate the way I feel when I don't. Its so hard to function without sleep. And when I can't fall asleep, I get so upset about it. I am sitting here crying because I can't sleep.
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Well, anyone that is on this site frequently knows my issues with having a few days off and then having to watch the kids again. Well, here I am, normal Monday night worry. I don't know why I worry so much Monday nights. I know I can handle it. I always do fine when the day comes. But Monday nights, I worry and never get any sleep. I hate it. I just don't understand why this happens. Tommorow night, I know I will be fine. This is so frustrating. I just don't know what to do. I just want to sleep well and have a good day. Seems like its too much to ask.

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