First of all, I think that you should defintely set some time aside for you time. Take a walk, do some yoga, pluck your eyebrows. It will help you feel better since you are doing something for yourself. I know how hard it is to run a house hold all by yourself. My husband works fulltime and is a full time student so I am really doing everything around here. I even cut the grass sometimes! I am currently pregnant and I feel very yucky sometimes. I really think it helps to set some time aside for yourself to exercise or take a bath. It will make you feel important, which you are. And with the food thing, look for easy recipes that are healthy online. Or if you are busy all week, maybe on the weekend, make a big pot of sou of healthy chiki, freeze it and eat it throughout the week. There are a lot of meals you can prepare ahead of time. And if you are really that stressed and busy, it might not be the time to lose weight. SOmethings are more important, like school. My husband and I have given up time togther and money for him to go to school, but it will be worth it in the end, as it will be for you. Take care.