Thank you Ree, I pray God you are right, I have taken a few preg tests that came up negative, but I head there is always a margin of error, I took the last one 13 days after my missed period first morning urine, and it was negative, I hope that was enough time, I am so afraid if I am with all this cramping and pain, there is a problem or its advanced ovarain cancer or something, I have a young special-needs son and he needs me. I am 44 years old and I know all the risks of preg over age 42, downs syndrome, mental retardation, etc.... They say its 1 in 16 women of my age, and then I fear surgery and cancer {my Mother died in surgery 5 years ago} I am really panicking, and am hoping God and the blessed Mother will give me the courage to go and not make a fool of myself, Thanks again Ree, your words helped. Debbie.