Psychological disorders are really hard for people to understand who
havent had exposure to them at all. Unfortunately the typical thought
is "get over it".
Panic disorder, whilst normally temporary, is a serious psycological
disorder and if not treated properly can lead to a very uncomfortable
life.
I know, 3 months ago I was ready to jump in front of a train. I was
living in constant fear and was really depressed about it. Now, with
therapy, SSRIs and positive thinking, Im doing great and feeling really
happy. I know im not fully cured yet, but if I stay on track for the next
6 months, I should be!
The level of fear we experience is something most people cannot
understand.
Now, there are some really good resources you can give your partner
to read. I think he needs to read up on it to understand. You need his
support while you are dealing with this condition.
http://www.paniccenter.net/about/living/family.cfm
http://www.paniccenter.net/about/living/help.cfm
Those two links would be a start for him to read. Id suggest that if you
are able to see a psychologist and take your partner along with you,
that would work best.
THere are also some really good books around. Try this link.
http://www.paniccenter.net/professional/links/
I have a book called Overcoming Panic, and its really good and
contains info for spouses.
I hope some of these ideas help.
