When I read, everything you guys are saying, it's hard for me to say everything I'm thinking about it. So I'm going to recommend a book for you all. I dunno if any of you have ever read it or anything but I think it's a real life-saver. I used to carry it with me wherever I went. I even highlighted all the parts that really helped me. The book is:
[u]DON'T PANIC[/u] by: R. Reid Wilson, Ph.D.
I hope, if you decide to read/purchase this book, it will be a great help to you all.