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for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 135

Awe sorry to hear about that.. But like others said, just worry about you and hopefully hubby will come along soon.. Take care [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/9/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 27 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 405 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $202.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 22 [B]Mins:[/B] 9 [B]Seconds:[/B] 13

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 449

Thanks everyone, great perspectives, I enjoyed every reply! Into the journal! He quit again the next day, I'm not sure if he's had a ciggie at work, his friend gave him a cigar. But we're friends and I'm still smoke free. I don't like the lying but I agree, addicts lie, been there done that! Thanks for a great read! Marie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/3/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 37 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,128 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $277.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 16 [B]Seconds:[/B] 3

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 449

PS: All of you write so well, I read your replies and say "hmmm, I never thought of it like that, etc.". Jus thought I'ld throw that in too, it amazes me to read these "well thought out" replies which are natural to you, but make me say "ah!", if that makes sense :) Marie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/3/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 37 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,128 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $277.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 16 [B]Seconds:[/B] 29

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 449

I found a pack of cigs in his jacket. 31 days. I cried. I cried because he lied but he says he lied because I'm doing so well. I realized it's my quit and mine only. Views?

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 449

I'm still quit, I'm sad, but it's not his problem. He was trying to protect me. It hurts but I'll get over it. You're right, quietly lead and don't nag. Why should he do what I want anyhow. I want it. But I'm sad still. Thanks for being there. It was a large row. My Dad is passed 3 years as well so I'm not right in the head Tomorrow is another day. Thanks for being there. Phil, thanks particularly in that you understand. But I'm still not happy about it LOL. Can't wait for this day to end. Hugs, Marie

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 591

freedomforme, Ditto here...same thing happened to me 1982 (my 10-yr quit beore my divorce)...when I found out he was still smoking...man I was mad! but...knowing that the addiction is our own, I knew I could not control his. So...I remained smokless "To spite Him", and just told him he would have to smoke outside. That was unheard of back then, you know the saying that a man's home is his castle? The neighbors thinking...what a shame the king has to smoke outside, laughing at him....(that was back then). Recently I drove down the old neighborhood, and noticed the kings outside all the way down the block..."smoking outside"! Tee-Hee Women are the stronger spieces you know? Stay fierce in your determination to be a Non-smoker... YOU CAN DO IT!!! auntdeb :mad: [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/1/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 36 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,813 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $171 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 4 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 45 [B]Seconds:[/B] 55

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 613

Freedom: You said it exactly right: It is YOUR quit and only your quit that you must be concerned about. I can understand why he didn't tell you -- good heavens, we've all been smokers, so can understand the wierd mentality of a smoker's justifications and rationalizations. He's probably genuinely feeling guilty about his caving in and really is proud of yours and doesn't want to jinx it in any way. I also understand your sorrow over losing your quit buddy. But please don't focus on that -- make it clear he can't smoke around you or in the house and that he's on his own. His quit or his caving is entirely his problem. YOU are doing great -- reward yourself big-time! Glad you posted here. You did the right thing. Hang in there and keep the faith! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/8/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 118 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 4,758 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $944 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 15 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 22 [B]Seconds:[/B] 34

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 2670

[IMG]http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q95/lynne122/hug.gif[/IMG] hope this will help you feel better lynnexx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/24/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 104 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,561 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �416 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 11 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 7 [B]Seconds:[/B] 13

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228,495

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for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 3908

Freedom He was only trying to help. And like most husbands me included comes from a long line of cowards) !! Phil x [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/8/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 180 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,782 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �945 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 36 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 33 [B]Seconds:[/B] 12

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 1127

Oh Girl I really feel sorry for you. Ask him to quit again, maybe he will do that. Or maybe after he sees you staying quit he will be jealous and quit again. You stay quit girl, you're doing great. Big hug from me ((((HUG)))) Dutch xx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 4/1/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 309 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 9,275 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �911.55 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 43 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 26 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0

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