Maria,
I too, am divorced...3 times..I had the bad habit of always picking the same kind of man...but NO MORE> I found out what was doing this..I was a "victim". That is, I thought in the victim mentality, and acted as such. I had a target on my back.
Not any more. I have better self esteem, I workex dthru with "shrink"
Red
My step father was cruel to my mother because of her
panic attacks - my husband could not be bothered
and began cheating on me - and, here I sit, still in
love with him - and, he could care less. Mental illness is a absoulute unacceptabe weakness in his eyes.
I think many spouses are terrified of this illness and
in some cases, like mine, have not the least bit of
interest in finding out about it. Any advice?
Maria