Hi, Neek.
You say your girlfriend has trouble trusting you about "[i]smoking and other petty things.[/i]" Do I interpret this to mean you have been lying about other things as well? If so, you have issues that go beyond this board.
Trust is something that, once lost, is extremely difficult to regain. Continually damaging it is a sure-fire way to never get it back again. I don't think it can stand still, either. It is either mending, or it's becoming worse. If it's becoming worse, it won't stay with just "[i]petty things[/i]", but will eventually extend to the "[i]HUGE things in our relationship.[/i]"
As far as lying about smoking, if you don't smoke there's nothing to lie about. Real simple, huh?
Shevie
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 267
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,349
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1014.6
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 49 [B]Hrs:[/B] 20 [B]Mins:[/B] 42 [B]Seconds:[/B] 31
