Dear kicse,
I agree, this is a very supportive community. I guess, like most of us in this forum, it's all about feelings, and as I read somewhere, they just are, they cannot be challenged, but our behaviors and environment can be, and the support here helps all of us identify what situations we are in, and how to possibly make things better.
Welcome to you too, and nice to hear from you!!
take care,
dygt