JC,
I here what you are saying. I am a 35 year old women who has been shuffled around to 3 Psychiatrists who have all diagnosed me with some different. My last Psychiatrists, who I really like, has diagnosed me with Depression, Anxiety and Agoraphobia (I have panic attacks). In regards to medication I have been on Effexor, Remeron, Xanax, Clonazepam, Ativan, Cipralex, Seroquel and finally the medication that seems to be working Perphenazine. I also still take Remeron to help with the depression and Seroquel to help me sleep at night and half a dose of Seroquel when I go outside. I see a psychoterapist twice a week and I think the therapy is really starting to help.
I am glad that you have found this site and the people here are wonderful and fully understand what you are going through.
Hang in there,
Sharon