Thanks for getting back,yes my wife is on medication ,she was having therapy but our private medical stopped paying and the N H S was not very good,no help at all.My wife seems a lot better , or she is coping with it much better,I have had a big problem dealing with it the right way,I have not been very good at seeing the signs,untill its too late.I have also started therapy,hope it opens my eyes,but have felt very on edge for the past months,worried that I say or do the wrong things.life a *****,then you die.