My husband, the best man in the world tries to understand my problems but he can not really get there. He is patient though and does have a sense of humor about it all. However; he does NOT like for me to not sleep in the bed at night with him. I try really hard to do this but there are some nights...like tonight....that I just gotta do the couch instead. WHY??? What differance does it make??? Strange but I will feel calmer and sleep better here than if I am in the bedroom. Anyone else????????